From the Rector - April 2016

Dear Friends,

A few days ago I was asked whether we were ”settled into the Rectory, now?" It's a kind question showing care for your Rector and family. It struck me because it was a question for the first four to five months I was asked several times a day every day. It prompted me to reflect on my first few months. I believe we "settled in" very quickly but there has, at least up until now, been a major event or season to plan and prepare for. No sooner had I arrived than we were planning for Harvest festivals across the Benefice; Eucharists, Evensongs, lunches and suppers. These were not at an end when we started to think about Advent and then Christmas including the thought of post Christmas with a reduction in staff. From January we started our Pilgrim Course. Plough Sunday and Candlemas followed and then Lent with all its intricacies of Lent courses, Lent Lunches and special services leading up to Easter. Then there is the season of the APCM — The Annual Parochial Church Meeting with endless minutes, accounts and reports to paw over and meetings to attend. With five parishes in the Benefice we have five meetings between the beginning of March and the end of April.

I often think that Christmas is over too quickly and so I emphasise the Christmas — Epiphany season taking us up to Candlemas on the 2nd February but every Clergyman and Benefice Administrator is mentally deep in thought about Lent while still in January. People often think that Eastertide is too long; weeks and weeks of it. Yes, there are still things to prepare for - Beating the bounds and Rogation on the 1st of May and our Pentecost service and picnic on May 8th. However, there is a profound sense of pause with Eastertide. I like to think a God given time that in the business of life we can all take some time to reflect on His glory and recall His love for the world and each one of us without having to rush on to the next thing.

May I take this opportunity to thank all those who have worked so hard to prepare for the Easter feast, worship planners and leaders, servers, flower arrangers (and display designers!), cleaners and church beautifiers, rota compilers and compliers and re-arrangers. Thank you all and more besides.

We will be having an Open House at The Rectory in Semley on Saturday 2nd April from 2.30pm to 5pm. Drop in (and out) during this time for a cup of something and to say hello.

May I wish you all a blessed Eastertide.

Yours,

Richard


From the Rector - March 2016

Dear Friends,

March this year seems such a full month. The first Sunday is Mothering Sunday and we'd be delighted to welcome you to any of our services. We then quickly move into Passiontide where the church takes us through Jesus’ approaching his last weeks on earth before the Resurrection. The following Sunday sees Palm Sunday with the retelling of the "triumphant entry" into Jerusalem. Yes, we have a donkey! (at Charlton). We then turn in a very special way to walk with Jesus in the week before his crucifixion. Holy Week is viewed as a special time where we make an effort to join part (or all) of that journey. There will be a simple said Eucharist on Monday - Wednesday. This is followed by the Sacred Triduum of Maundy Thursday, Good Friday and Easter. These are all considered "red letter days" in the Church of England where we are all encouraged to take part as fully as possible. These are the highlight of the Christian year (and include two of my three favourite services in the whole year).

Obviously these services are spread around the Benefice of six churches. Maundy Thursday is celebrated in Semley. The Eucharist and foot washing is followed by a watch until midnight ending with a very short Night Prayer. The Good Friday Liturgy takes place in East Knoyle. On Holy Saturday (I wonder how many TV channels will incorrectly call it Easter Saturday?!) we have a beautiful service of the Easter Vigil. When the candidates to become Rector were interviewed by representatives of Semley School Council we were asked the question "What is your favourite service of the year?" Both of us answered that it was the Easter Vigil. This is the most important service of Easter and the first Eucharist of Easter. It is very different to the norm and it is a beautiful celebration. This year it is at Donhead Saint Mary.

I encourage you to take part in these services as fully as possible. Please do move around the Benefice and support each other (and your clergy!)

This is a tiring time for the clergy and may I take the opportunity to thank our retired clergy for all they will do during the celebrations and the rest of the year.

By the time we get to this point in March I can wish you a Happy Easter.

Yours,

Richard


From the Rector - February 2016

Dear friends,

In just a few short days the churches season of Lent will be upon us. i will only just have taken down the decorations from Christmas (we will have been celebrating the season of Epiphany until Candlemas (February 2nd) - we're very modern in our house.

Epiphany is all about a showing, a manifestation. It's the season when we are told who Jesus is. The wise men visit showing the significance of Christ to all the nations. Jesus is acclaimed as the Son of the Father at his baptism and he performs his first miracle of turning water into wine. l suppose there is an appropriate link with the short turn around into Lent and into Easter as this is a season which focuses on why Jesus came to us. in fact there is some evidence to suggest that the church season of Lent originally followed straight on from the Epiphany but soon became attached to Easter as this was the main celebration at which baptism happened and it became a time for examination of conscience, penitence, fasting and study.

It's very easy to imagine that what we are used to is the norm. On the Sunday before Palm Sunday (which I would call Passion Sunday) it was traditional in my home parish church to bless a basket full of nails and distribute them to the congregation as an aid to meditation for the following two weeks. When I was ordained I had to phone a friend and ask where I could find the prayer to bless the nails. Needless to say he was bemused and l was surprised to find the rest of the Church of England did not do this as standard. Our Churchwarden sent one to her son, who was serving in the RAF and stationed in Northern Ireland at the time. The security machines were not expecting them either.

Whatever you're used to you are very welcome to come and experience any of our services as we move through Lent, Holy Week and Easter. Even if you just want to see what we do, you will be very welcome.

During Lent we will be having Lent study groups. These will take place on Wednesdays during Lent starting on the 17th February.

Donhead St Mary at Glebe Cottage, next to the church at 9.30am

East Knoyle     Feb 17th Coopers Ground at 7.30pm
                         Feb 24th 3 Mallet Close at 7.30pm
                         March 2nd Church Cottage, next to the church at 7.30pm

This year we will be looking at a course called The Joy of the Gospel by Dr Paula Gooder based on Pope Francis’ acclaimed book of the same name. Dr Gooder is the Theologian in Residence for the Bible Society and also holds a number of honorary positions such as Canon Theologian of Birmingham and Guildford Cathedrals, Lay Canon at Salisbury Cathedral, a Six preacher of Canterbury Cathedral, Vice president of the Bible Society and Visiting lecturer at King's College, London. She is a Reader (Licensed Lay Minister) in the Church of England and a member of General Synod.

All welcome!

Yours,

Richard


From the Rector - January 2016

Dear Friends,

One of the silly frustrations of modern life is how the feast of Christmas has been over commercialised. Not that I'm grumpy...but I first started listening to Radio 4 (years ago now) because Steve Wright was wishing people a Happy Christmas in October. I took great exception to being told by a major television network’s news programme on Boxing Day (St Stephen's Day) this year that "Christmas is all over for another year” when it had in fact only just started. All this may sound like a grump but actually, as most of you will read this in early January when it will still be Christmas, this is a preamble to wishing you a very blessed Christmas and a happy healthy New Year.

May I also take this opportunity to thank all those who gave us cards and gifts. It helped to make our first Christmas here very special.

On Sunday January 3"‘ we will say farewell to our Assistant Curate, The Revd Alice Goodall. As I'm sure you're all aware Alice has been appointed as Rector of Shelswell in the Diocese of Oxford. Alice has worked tremendously hard during her time here and I know she is much loved across our community and schools. We will also miss Joe who has been a committed member of our churches, great fun and a very handy person to have in the congregation when you need a server at the last minute. He also drinks espresso so is clearly a man of sophistication and style.

I will personally miss Alice far more than she could know (though I do tell her). She has been very supportive and informative and has also been tremendous fun. Above all that, I know that she has a deep love and care for our communities and for you.

One of the patrons of our Benefice (specifically for Semley) is Christ Church, Oxford. Alice is also going to a Christ Church '’living’’. This is particularly good for two reasons. The first is that Christ Church are a very good, supportive and generous patron to have and I know there will be this support for Alice. Secondly, Christ Church has a biannual Incumbent’s Conference, so I hope I will be seeing much more of Alice over the years to come. I attended the conference in September; I seem to remember Alice mentioning something about "an Oxford port lake" before I went. Sadly this was not true but I would be delighted to introduce her to some of my favourite watering holes from my time in Oxford

I hope you have all seen details of the Pilgrim Course which we shall be starting on January 7"‘ at Semley Rectory. Please feel free to come along. Booking isn't essential but it would be helpful to have an idea of numbers - so please let us know if you know you are coming.

Yours ever,

Richard


From the Rector - December 2015

It would be a delight to welcome you to any of our services over Christmas (or any time). Families and children are welcome at any of our services.

I wonder how willing you are to trust other people? Are others willing to trust you? There is quite a lot of trust around the Christmas story. There is Joseph - quite an incredible man amongst men. Joseph finding his fiancée to be pregnant could have refused to marry her but is persuaded in a dream to trust both her and God.

There is no doubt why Mary trusted him. He is a man of noble character, refusing to make a public scandal out of Mary's pregnancy.

Joseph knew Mary too, and in the depths of his heart he trusted her. Of course there were difficult facts to face but it took just one mysterious dream to set Joseph's heart at peace.

Then there is Mary herself. She puts her trust in the words of an angelic messenger although few people are likely to believe her story and she knows that to bear a child can only bring shame on her family. She trusted Joseph, and God too, resisting what passes for human respectability and ‘common sense’.

You can just imagine the tongues wagging in that little town. Perhaps that is partly why Mary and Joseph chose precisely that moment to set off to be registered at Bethlehem — it was a good excuse to get away from all the gossip.

We see the trust of the shepherds and of the Magi and later on of apostles and disciples.

Behind the human trust that we see so poignantly displayed in Mary and Joseph there is of course something much greater, the eternal trustworthiness of God and a word that can never be broken.

God is asking us to renew our trust in each other and to build a world in which not only individuals but whole nations display a genuine care and concern for each other, a world in which we are more concerned with our duties to each other than a fearful preservation of our own petty rights on our own little patch of turf.

But God is not only asking us to keep trusting each other. We are being asked to trust in something much more sure and certain than a vague hope in human benevolence.

God is asking us to trust Him.

The gospel tells us that Mary bears a son whose name is Emmanuel, or 'God-is-with-us‘.

This Christmas may we all grow in trust and faithfulness to God and to each other.

On behalf of all our churches in the Benefice may I wish you a happy and peaceful Christmas.

Richard


From the Rector - 18th October 2015

Alice GoodallI am pleased to announce that our curate, The Rev'd Alice Goodall, has been appointed Rector of the Benefice of Shelswell, a rural Benefice in North Oxfordshire. She will probably move early in the New Year, and her Institution and Installation will take place on 19th January 2016.

Further details will follow.

I know you will share with me in wishing her the warmest congratulations and will keep Alice, Joe and their family in our prayers now and in the years to come.

Richard


From the Rector - October 2015

Dear Friends

We are in the time of year when we celebrate Harvest. For our rural communities this is a time when we not only give thanks for what we have and for those who grow, rear, harvest and transport our food and drink, but also a time when we keep these people locally and internationally in our thoughts. For those of you who feel able, I would also ask you to pray for these people and industries at a time of struggle and uncertainty.

It has been a harrowing summer of watching desperation and frustration from dairy farmers' protests to mass migration from war zones. Whatever we feel the correct political solution to these matters is, and there will be many opinions among those who read this, for Christians we are called to be like Christ, who had compassion - 'suffer-with'. We must never forget the human story and cost behind other people's struggles.

Our thanksgiving will turn to remembrance in November. For the church we have the feast of All Saints and the commemoration of All Souls which are quickly followed more widely by Remembrance Sunday and Armistice Day.

On Sunday 1st of November we celebrate All Saints in the morning and at 5.30 in the evening we have a Benefice service for All Souls at East Knoyle. Please come along if you would like to. If you would like us to remember somebody who has died by reading their name during prayers at that service, please add names onto one of the sheets in any of our churches. Alternatively, you can send an email from this website to the Benefice Office with your names - click here and when the new page opens, click on the 'Contact Form' tab to send your message.

Following the All Souls service we switch back to celebrating All Saints, with a party at the Rectory in Semley. This is a 'bring a bottle and a firework (under safe conditions) party'. To help with catering, please sign up on a list in church or email the Benefice Office. Please take care to sign the correct list.

At the risk of confusing things further we are going to introduce a 'benefice prayer list' of names of people to be prayed for during our services. These should be people who are ill (please make sure you have the person's permission) and those who have died. Please contact the Benefice Office to add names - email as above or 01747 830174. Please also let us know when a name can come off the prayer list.

I pray we all have a blessed time of thanksgiving and remembrance.

Yours,
Richard


From the Rector - September 2015

Dear Friends,

l would like to begin by congratulating and thanking all those involved with the Children's Activity Week at the beginning of August. It was a brilliant week and I enjoyed meeting the children and helpers alike. Well done.

I have now been in post for a month. In my last letter i had to assume a warm welcome for myself and my family. We have not been disappointed.

We had a fantastic welcome on 27th July. I am very grateful to all the local clergy who attended. We had friends from far and wide drop everything and join us. I had friends from University: from previous parishes and from my last post at Dorothy House Hospice. Then a whirlwind of faces of people from our local churches, farms. schools, councils and groups. Some of whom I can now remember their names! Please, please, please keep telling me your names as we meet.

l have been pretty busy since. I am now wondering where I am going to find time to fit everything in when the 'lull' of August is passed and the schools are back and church folk expect things like the Parochial Church Council to meet again.

i am, however, looking forward to it. There is something of a fresh start about September. I'm sure it all stems from school days. Most of us will remember going back to school after the summer holidays. Some of us with disappointment that the freedom was over. Some of us relieved to get away from parental enforced labour or just glad to see friends that we had not seen for a while. I never really enjoyed going back to school as it usually ruined my birthday.

September will also see some of our young residents or family heading off to university. It seems fitting to me that I should be at the start of my ministry as many others prepare for their new starts. I invite you to join with me in praying for those who face new starts with excitement or trepidation and for those who long for a new start in their career. relationships. lives or faith.

Yours,

Richard